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Coaching: Love Smarter


Love takes work. Great relationships are built, not discovered. A lasting relationship doesn’t just happen. It is the culmination of a series of decisions, including when to get out there, whom to date, how to end, it with the wrong person, when to settle down with the right one, and everything in between. Make good decisions, and you propel yourself toward a great love story. Make bad ones, and you veer off course, doomed to repeat the same harmful patterns over and over. 

Your coach will help you identify and break your bad habits, and replace them with healthier ones. Together with your coach, you’ll help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams. 

Upgrade your dating life

I work with several best-in-class dating coaches, who I’ve personally trained in my research and methodology.

Your coach will help you identify the dating blindspots holding you back. You'll go deep and receive the life-changing, research-backed support that has helped hundreds of my clients find love after years of dating frustration.

Who this is for
If you’re looking to get unstuck in your dating life, investing in a one-on-one coach is the best way to meet your goals.

Frequently Asked Questions


I want to work with a coach! How do I get started?

Wonderful! Fill out this form to get started.

Is remote coaching available?

Yes, coaching is offered over video chat. My coaches work with people all over the world.

What kind of people work with a coach?

We work with many different types of people who are looking to find love or make a big decision in their relationship.

Why should I spend money to work through a relationship problem?

Delaying a decision has consequences. We often underestimate the opportunity cost — the cost of not making a decision. It keeps us up at night, makes us lose confidence, and steals time and energy away from other areas of our lives. But a coach can help. A coach can help you think through your options. You’ll leave each coaching session with a renewed sense of confidence and a clear plan for how to move forward.

Is this like therapy?

No. Many coaching clients are currently in or have been in therapy, but this is not like therapy. Therapy is focused on looking backwards and addressing past traumas. Coaching is forward-looking. Your coach will review your past dating and relationship experiences, but the majority of the time will be spent making a plan to help you find the love you’re looking for. Your coach will hold you accountable and support you as you execute this plan.

What will I get from working with a coach?

You'll gain:

  • A clear perspective on who you are and what you want
  • Insights into your blind spots (what you don’t know you don’t know)
  • Techniques to help you break bad patterns and develop new ones
  • A step-by-step plan to help you find love
  • Feedback on your online dating profile
  • Strategies for meeting more people in real life
  • A partner to help support and guide you throughout this process
  • Hands-on exercises based on behavioral science research
  • An accountability partner to ensure you stick to your goals

What are my responsibilities as a client?

Your most important responsibility is to show up for yourself. That means arriving on time to your appointments, completing your homework assignments, and prioritizing your romantic life outside of your appointments.

My coaches will be blunt and honest with you. I ask that you be open and willing to receive feedback.

Can I work with Logan instead of one of her trained coaches?

I have a waitlist but I occasionally open spots for new clients. For more information email me at logan@loganury.com.

Logan Ury Dating Coach

Your coach will help you

Decide what you want in a long-term relationship.

Understand your attachment style.

Use the right tools to meet people online.

Create a profile that attracts the kind of person you want to be with.

Strategize ways to meet people in everyday life.
Filter potential dates efficiently.

Design creative dates that don’t feel transactional, like a job interview.

Evaluate early dates and communicate honestly.

Avoid the “grass is always greener” phenomenon.

Build a Relationship that lasts.

Invite Logan to Speak


Logan is a SXSW Featured Speaker and TED Resident. She’s taught workshops at General Assembly and the Assemblage, and presented at The White House, Dublin Startuponomics, the ROI Conference in Jerusalem, and Design Action Miami.

She’s also presented corporate workshops on both applied behavioral science and relationships at Google, Airbnb, Genentech, TED, and more.